For the longest time, Valentine’s Day has been celebrated as the day of love—a time when lovers would proclaim their affections from the rooftops for all to hear. Fast forward to today, and while the tradition of grand gestures remains, the audience has expanded beyond the village to include social media followers from all over the world. Every heartfelt moment, every thoughtful gift, and every declaration of love is now documented and shared with the masses.
One common theme throughout history has been the act of gifting. Traditionally, men have been seen as the givers while women graciously received. However, in today’s world, perspectives are shifting. As Shilz and Djen have pointed out in their discussions on tradition, the ladies have emphasised the importance of balance, encouraging women to also take part in gifting the men in their lives.
If you were unaware , gifting has no gender, the notion that only one party should give while the other receives is outdated. Gifting is a universal love language, transcending gender norms. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a close friend, or a cherished family member, showing appreciation through a thoughtful gift is a meaningful way to express love and gratitude—not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day. After all, love is not confined to a single date on the calendar.
As we continue the month of love, it’s important to remember that gifts don’t have to be extravagant. The true essence of gifting lies in the sentiment behind it. A small yet meaningful gesture can leave a lasting impact on the recipient, strengthening your connection and making your intentions clear.
To gift or not to gift, is the question and in my humble opinion—gift. You never know what closed heart you might open. It doesn’t have to be grand; it just has to be genuine. Whether it’s a handwritten note, a favorite snack, or a small token of appreciation, a gift can be a simple yet powerful way to show someone how much they mean to you.
5 Ways Gifting Can Make a Difference:
Strengthens Relationships – A thoughtful gift can bring people closer, reinforcing bonds and showing appreciation.
Creates Lasting Memories – A meaningful gift can be remembered for years, making a lasting impression.
Boosts Happiness – Both the giver and receiver experience a boost in mood and well-being.
Encourages Reciprocity – Giving fosters a cycle of generosity and kindness in relationships.
Expresses Unspoken Feelings – Sometimes, a gift conveys emotions that words cannot fully express.
So, as another year goes around the sun, take the chance. Make the effort. Buy the gift. Because sometimes, the smallest gestures speak the loudest. Tune in to this week’s CML episode and get into this love conversation with Shilz and Djen!
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