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Ways To Identify When Someone Is Not Into You

Love and relationships come with their ups and downs and one of those downs is that, in some cases, you might have to deal with unreciprocated love. 

Nothing sucks more than realising the person you want to be with has no feelings for you.

So how do you know when he or she isn’t that into you?

How To Know When Someone Isn’t Into You

It can be hard to navigate the world of romance and dating especially with the increase of social media, where trying to determine if a person likes you or is just playing hard to get, can be confusing.

While it's important to remember that everyone is different and no two encounters are going to be the same therefore expression of interests will also be in different ways, but there are some signs you can look for that suggest if someone is not feeling you.

Ways To Identify

  • They may not pay attention to you during conversations.

  • They might pull away from subtle touches or she just might never initiate any physical contact between you and her.

  • If they are not passionate about the topics you’re discussing

  • When they don’t ask you personal questions or aren’t constantly asking about you and your interests in general, this is just another sign that they are not into you.

  • If they do not maintain eye contact they are probably avoiding getting intimate with you meaning they don’tii in want anything other than friendship.

  • They’re not bringing you into their life and giving you the chance to meet their friends and family, it’s not because they think you’re the one. Rather, it's because he doesn’t envision a future with you.

  • You're doing all the chasing should be a tell tell sign as it shows they not interested in you enough to chase you

  • They only ever talk about themselves

  • They don’t match your energy and give you short answers to your thoughtful questions, or you have to ask them to do things for you that a person who actually cares about you would already be doing.


Is It Just Friendliness Or They Truly Interested In You?

If someone is just being friendly, they’ll usually talk to you in a casual way. They’ll ask about your day or what you're up to, but the conversation won't get too personal. If someone is interested in you, they’ll want to know more about you. They’ll ask about your hobbies, your family, and your dreams and they’ll definitely take it to the next step by asking you out on a date.


Most people are quite blunt and it’s easy to know and navigate when it comes to relationships but when you’re having a hard time figuring out whether someone’s interested or not just pay attention as the signs are always there.

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